Something About Those Axioms

Dress for success and fake it ‘til you make it are phrases that need little explanation. And there is much truth to them. Recently, an acquaintance who knew I worked from home asked if I put on makeup and dress nicely every day. I thought it a curious question, but was forthcoming and replied, “Usually,” which is the truth. The only time that I do not put on makeup is when I’m absolutely certain I’m not going to need to leave the house for errands. Those are the days I tend to feel less like someone who is ready to meet the world head on and more like a slouch. My output on those days isn’t much different, but my mental attitude is.

Some of my friends say that if they worked from home, they’d stay in pajamas all day. I don’t doubt them because their jobs demand that they dress in business attire daily and the very idea of being able to, well, slouch, is appealing to them. However, there is something about maintaining an attitude of professionalism, even if it’s just me working from my home office. Although I think the book The Secret is somewhat simple in what it shares, the single truth in that bestseller for me is that one must create an atmosphere for accomplishment and if I’m presenting myself to my mirror as a—here comes that word again—slouch, then that is how I will mentally perceive myself. I’d much rather present myself as a businesswoman ready for success and believe it to be true. Amazing what a little makeup and nice outfit can do for one’s self-image, not to mention business