Vintage Friends and Couture Aquaintances

As I get older, the people I know tend to fall into two categories. Old, vintage friends, where we serve each others emotional needs, and couture acquaintances where we serve each others professional needs. The two groups of people don’t often collide. I love them both and need them both. Sometimes friends help me professionally and the acquaintances become friends. It’s a beautiful thing to see the lines dissolve, as we all support each other en route to the top. Sometimes the smallest problem for me can be a stumbling block for someone else. Of course the tables are often turned and that’s what keeps the relationships strong. We all know we’ll be there for each other at a moments notice for computer issues, relationship talk, pimple zapping tips and of course the best new restaurant to try in NY.

I choose to bring people into my life, that fulfill a certain need. Hopefully, I can do the same for them. My friends are vintage, because I’m totally selfish in just liking them for the way they make me feel. Like a comfy old sneakers or baggy sweatpants. My acquaintances are considered couture, because they are tailored to a need I have, to bring myself to the next level vocationally. If you’ve read my blogs, you know I love stiletto’s, but lets face it, they’re not the most comfortable. Likewise with some acquaintances, you never feel totally yourself in couture. In couture, you’re aware of every move you make, being careful not to mess up and ruin the image. Do your friends and acquaintances blend?